Why does he go on to send letters to my word company, a defendant’s conduit as well as to my physicians indicating which he represents me, “Heather White,” in this case, when I’m a guy… Is it as well most to ask which he during slightest know a name of his client?

get a new attorney
Usually I tried to give a more complete answer…. But yeah, you need a new attorney. How is he supposed to represent your interest when he does not even know your name. In fact, he is sending a very bad message to the defendant insurance company.
They know he does not know what the hell he is talking about. They will not take him or you seriously.
Consult with a new lawyer how you can get your case transfer before this one attorney tell you that he has done a lot work on your case and that he charges 180 per hour, per letter….